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12 Tips to Manage Christmas with Children with ADHD
Make Your ADHD Christmas Fizz Not Fizzle
We all want to avoid decking the halls with boughs of folly, let’s shine a special spotlight on the hidden struggles ADHD kids and their parents face during what can be the most frenzied time of year.
Is an ADHD Grinch-free Christmas possible?
ADHD in children means that anxiety and exhaustion can wrestle against enjoyment. While low dopamine might make the hunt for stimulation high, pushing that ‘annual magic’ too hard can mean it all unravels like a badly knitted Christmas stocking.
Alongside beautiful characteristics such as intelligence, imagination and empathy come other ADHD traits the NHS list as social anxiety, sight and noise sensitivities, emotional dysregulation and overwhelm that can really take the crackle out of Christmas.
Our ADHD-friendly 12-days of Christmas
While we can't promise your Yuletide will run without a hiccup, a few tweaks could make your ADHD Christmas much more of a cracker than a crash.
- Dreaming of a bite-sized Christmas
Protect their social battery – ADHD kids expend a lot of energy. They can also quickly become overwhelmed.
Consider trimming the festivities: stick to immediate family on the big day and spread out the extended crew on different days, giving kids a chance to recharge in between. Who said Christmas can't be done in bite-sizes?
- Good King Senses
ADHD in kids often means being up against sensory nightmares – think loud TVs, clinking glasses, gaudy Christmas lights, paper hats that feel like a crown of thorns, being hugged when you hate touch. These can all be major ADHD sensory triggers.
It’s a good idea to establish a code beforehand to use for a quick escape, set up a quiet space with soft lighting, and bring an iPad and noise-cancelling headphones with you. Sometimes, a strategic retreat is the best gift.
- Managing expectations
Before the festive break, ask your kids what they really want – even if it’s as outrageous as a wishing well (trust me, I’ve been there) or a sleep fairy (actually, I asked for this). If their dreams are bigger than Santa can handle, be upfront about it. No child wants to discover the mega-Lego set they’ve set their heart on is off the table on Christmas morning, especially when emotional dysregulation is such a significant part of ADHD.
Spare them the stress of unwrapping gifts in front of family. Here's what Lillia, 15, says: “You’re expected to have a positive reaction and that can be stressful especially as you’re already the centre of attention – that’s already socially draining. You must then react a certain way, regardless of how you feel, and force yourself to look happy even if you’re not. That’s a lot of pressure.”
- Ditch Christmas shopping
Being trapped inside busy, stuffy, noisy, crowded stores with long queues can be the seventh circle of hell for any child. Ramp that up ten-fold for an ADHD child.
Here’s some advice from Lillia: “If your child doesn’t show an interest in going shopping with you, don’t force them. Leave them with a relative, friend or parent as they’re likely to find it stressful.”
“If you can’t do this – or they want to go –take a friend with you. That way, if they find it too overstimulating, the friend can step out with them. If they’re old enough to be independent, they can go to a nearby café and wait there.”
The key thing is “to give them some options”.
- Don’t force the fun
Asking an ADHD child to ‘join in’ when they’re already struggling to keep it together is likely to provoke a frosty withdrawal or a meltdown. Whether it’s time at pantos or fun with relatives, consider breaking visits into manageable chunks.
Lillia advises, “Don’t get mad at a child for wanting to sit out. Don’t nag them to return if you think they need more social interaction. If they’re not up for it, don’t force them.” She reminds us that socialising “shouldn’t feel like a chore”.
- Do plan the fun
It’s worth looking out for any Christmas-themed activities happening near you, like ice skating or Christmas markets. You can even make a den at home and watch Christmas films inside. Having something for your ADHD child to look forward to every day keeps their dopamine boosted the right way. If possible, get outside. ADHD and exercise have been shown to help with a reduction in their ADHD symptoms.
- Better fuel this Yule
With chocolate everywhere, our ADHDer’s dopamine-seeking brains will be partying without thinking of the crash.
We know impulse control makes it hard for them to stop, so instead let them have a nibble and keep the rest somewhere safe especially for them.
Turkey, on the other hand, is loaded with tryptophan which boosts serotonin for better moods and less anxiety. For a science-backed mood enhancer, try saffron – nature’s way to feel better and tackle ADHD symptoms.
8. No scary mystery dishes
If they’re already on a knife edge, a Christmas feast with too much food could be overwhelming. It’s a good idea to always have one comforting go-to dish for your ADHD child.
It’s worth knowing that 90% of serotonin is created in the gut. A lot of ADHD children have stomach issues, from cramps to constipation. If this is your child, it might be worth looking at Gut Love.
- Keep a routine
Although that dopamine kick wants novelty, it doesn’t mean routine should be chucked out of the window.
Discuss plans and try not to spring surprises on them. That certainly doesn’t mean Christmas has to be dull. It just needs a bit of planning. ADHD loves stimulation, but also thanks you for putting some reassuring scaffolding in place.
- Emotional regulation check-in
Emotional dysregulation is a hallmark of ADHD, where kids experience emotions more intensely, longer and deeper than their neurotypical peers. It’s often the most hidden part of ADHD too.
Dr Caroline Buzanko points out that when a child’s emotional brain is on overdrive, logic takes a back seat while the ‘emotional brain will overpower the cognitive brain every time’.
Instead of using reason which taps into their already depleted executive function skills, Dr. Buzanko suggests harnessing emotional energy. “Emotions are stronger motivators than reason.” Use gratitude, pride, and compassion – and we’ll all see fewer meltdowns.
Stimulating the vagus nerve is also said to help: You can even do this by singing cheesy Christmas hits.
And let’s not forget Saffron. This is Mother Nature’s gift for managing moods, ADHD, hormones, sleep and more.
- Sleep fairy
With brains buzzing like pinball machines, ADHD kids struggle to fall asleep or get enough of it.
ADHD-related sleep problems come from issues with the regulation of brain activity that can mean anything from a delayed circadian rhythm and later melatonin production, to insomnia.
The usual sleep hygiene rules apply, including getting outside in the earlier part of the day to try and set sleep cycles, as well as keeping to the same wake-up time each morning can help.
Another natural great way to help your ADHD child unwind is magnesium. It regulates neurotransmitters related to mental tension – learn more about it here.
And of course, Saffron is great for mood balance as it helps banish stress. Saffrosun Calm and Saffrosun for Children can help sooth away anxiety and make for a more restful night.
- Nature and Nutrition for ADHD
Thankfully Mother Nature has some pretty special gifts which can help with many of the challenging symptoms of ADHD. Look out for:
Saffrosun Calm (and for Children)
Which helps alleviate nervousness, improves sleep and restores emotional balance. It also enhances dopamine, serotonin, and noradrenaline—ideal for ADHD.
Supports nerve and muscle function, improves sleep and reduces stress and helps to decreases brain fog.
Immune Hero for Children
Contains Zinc to regulate dopamine and aids iron absorption, that’s essential for brain development and cognitive function
Gut Love (+14)
Enhances digestive health and alleviates gut issues in ADHD kids by improving the absorption of nutrients.
Foods that can help ADHD symptoms
The nutrients in certain foods travel to the brain and contribute to dopamine production, for example lots of fruits and vegetables.
Protein, including lean meats like turkey is great, as are foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids like salmon. Research has shown that consuming the amino acid tyrosine found in milk and bananas and more can also increase dopamine availability.
Try to avoid sugar and artificial colourings.
If you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact our pharmacists on pharmacist@thenakedpharmacy.com or call us 01483 678 438.
Natural ways to reduce a hangover and headaches
We are all guilty of over indulging at certain times of year, over eating, drinking too much or consuming too much sugar.
However, as you get older you may find that it is taking longer to bounce back and you may become intolerant to certain types of foods and alcohol.
If you suffer from headaches and migraines you may be reaching for painkillers such as Ibuprofen which, although an effective anti-inflammatory, has long term side effects including increasing cardiovascular risks and damaging the protective lining of the gut. Ibuprofen is only effective for up to 6 hours, so you may need to take repeated doses!
Did you know that Turmeric with the correct range and strength of 7 curcuminoids, has multiple anti-inflammatory benefits, works just as well as Ibuprofen or aspirin and actually improves gut health.
Scientific research (ref see below) has demonstrated that curcuminoinds, the active compounds in turmeric, are effective at removing both the cause and symptoms of a hangover.
Curcuminoids are potent antioxidants. Alcohol consumption can cause oxidative stress that damages your cells, so an effective antioxidant is vital before, during and after a heavy night.
So the perfect natural solution for hangovers should be taken before you go out and again when you wake up:
Natruflex Turmeric: We recommend that you take Natruflex Turmeric 1-2 capsules BEFORE you go out and when required during the next day.
Gut Love: Containing, 21 probiotics and 2 organic prebiotics. take 1 capsule daily to settle the digestion and improve the excretion of toxins for a minimum of 14 days.
Marine Magnesium: Take 1 capsule at night to restore healthy nerve and muscle function for a minimum of 7 days.
Vitamin D3: Take 2 capsule daily for at least 30 days
How can Metabolic Gold help?
Metabolic Gold contains Bergamot fruit extract and Artichoke leaf extract. It is the perfect blend of naturally sourced, high strength ingredients that work together synergistically to help reduce sugar levels, improve insulin resistance, balance cholesterol, reduce fat around the waistline and reduce fatty liver.
In a recent trial of 60 patients who were overweight and had high cholesterol, subjects were treated with a combination of bergamot extract and artichoke leaf extract for 2 months and compared to a group that received a placebo for the same amount of time. The results showed a significant decrease in total and LDL cholesterol as well as a significant reduction in waist circumference.
When combined with lifestyle efforts focusing on diet, exercise, sleep and stress, the combination of bergamot fruit and artichoke leaf extracts can provide significant health benefits.
We recommend this supplement is taken for at least 3-4 months at a dose of one capsule twice a day with or after food.
PUBLISHED RESEARCH:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35070194/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35668500/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30395947/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36370961/
Why do I need a broad-spectrum probiotic?
When gut health is good, you’ll feel balanced – when it’s off, you may experience a variety of symptoms and this imbalance can also affect your emotional health, your immune system and skin health.
Signs you could benefit from taking a probiotic?
- You’ve taken a course of antibiotics
- You eat a lot of refined sugar
- You’ve taken a course of antacid medfication
- You experience bloating
- You have a lot of gas
- You suffer from loose stools/diarrhoea
- You regularly get constipated
- You have skin issues triggered by certain foods
50% of our stools are actually bacteria that have been living in your gut – therefore these bacteria need replacing everyday.
So how can we replace these wonderful hard working bugs?
- Plant-based fibre - helps our gut bugs thrive aim for ideally around 30g per day, ensuring vegetables and fruits of all the colours of the rainbow are included in a week.
- Fermented foods can boost the number of friendly bacteria in your gut, Kefir, sauerkraut, kimchi, miso, kombucha, pickles (in salty brine), tempeh, natto, unsweetened yoghurt
- Prebiotics : these are like fertiliser for our new and current gut flora and include:
- Baobab fruit
- Moringa leaf
- Chicory root
- Dandelion greens
- Jerusalem artichoke
- Garlic, Onions, Leeks
- Asparagus
- Bananas
- Barley, Oats
- Apples (with the skins)
- Dark chocolate
- Flaxseeds (also known as linseeds)
- Potatoes/pasta that have been cooked the day before and left in the fridge overnight
Why taking a probiotic could help?
Our GUT LOVE is a great multi-strain probiotic that can be taken daily, containing 19 different strains of live bacteria to help replenish your gut flora with a variety of strains.
Heart attack by Jeff Schmidt
It turns out that we really are ‘the sum total of our experiences.’ Had I known then the impact of many of my decisions, I may have made changes earlier, but it turns out that we must live life to truly understand it.
I was definitely living life. Perceived invincibility provided me with the tunnel vision which enabled me to dash from one task to another, ticking off one more achievement, adventure and accolade.
Of course you can’t sustain this symphonic level of intensity without topping up the tank with quick access fuel, mine came in the form of sugar- packets of delicious sweets and finely baked biscuits.
I also gradually began to neglect my regular exercise regimen in exchange for a membership in the weekend warrior club. Gut irritation and a little extra weight accumulated, but, as far as I was concerned, I felt normal for a 40-something professional.
‘That’ evening, the one that irreversibly shook up my life, Thursday 3 December, I found myself staring eternity squarely in the face. I had returned home from work with my two girls. It had been a stressful day capped by a suitably heated, hard-hitting quarrel that left me trembling.
I did not generally consider my life stressful, and yet I knew that I ran at a pretty high-octane pace. But that was OK, because, despite warnings from others, I was, or believed I was, bulletproof.
I wore my intensity like a shiny badge of honour. On that evening, however, the engine said ‘no more’; you can’t drive even the most brilliantly engineered sports cars at 5000 RPM indefinitely.
It took my mum, who spotted me bent over, clutching my chest, rubbing my arms on FaceTime and my daughter's subsequent fear-filled plea to get help for me to make the medical call. Reluctantly, in a haze of pain, I did make the call. In minutes an ambulance was there.
Pride masking the danger, I couldn’t help, but feel that all this commotion was quite unnecessary. The seasoned paramedics quickly assessed my traumatised frame, blood pressure surging through my veins like a blocked firehose. They looked me straight in the eyes, piercing my vanity, and said, “We are taking you to hospital. Now.”
‘That’ evening marked the beginning of a myriad of changes. Naturally, and most significantly was that of my health, but also, running neatly alongside, compelling me, almost without choice, was my desire to capture the goodness in life around me.
Being in hospital forced me to slow down and rest, my senses sharpened and my eyes opened to the subtleties in the world around me, to things I had not previously noticed before.
I became acutely aware of nuances in conversation, of the sacrifices of those around me and of the delicacy of relationships. I was also painfully cognizant, in increasing measure, of the compounding effects of the bad choices I had made for my body- sugar addiction, stress, exercise withdrawal and sleep deprivation.
Buckminster Fuller once said, “You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.” So, that is what I did (and am doing), engineering a new, more tantalising model for life.
My diet, for instance, has been transformed. The once glutinous intake has been replaced with cleaner foods, nutrition straight from the earth and, perhaps more importantly, I expunged sweets.
Implored by the immediacy of the situation, I also instilled radical changes to my work routine and introduced regular, gentler exercises in the great outdoors. The list goes on, but I feel that, if indeed we are ‘the sum total of our experiences,’ I have been gifted a lifeline with which to significantly alter the outcome of my time here on earth. And, I must say, my heart feels good, very good indeed.
NOTE FROM THE NAKED PHARMACY
Jeff’s story highlights the importance of regular heart health checks for both men and women above the age of 30. The good news is many heart and circulatory diseases are caused by risk factors that can be controlled, treated or modified
Key risk factors as identified by The British Heart Foundation are cholesterol, diabetes, being overweight, physical inactivity, smoking and having high blood pressure. As well as a family history of heart issues
As a pharmacist, I believe that relatively simple diet and lifestyle changes can reduce the risk of heart disease
Our targeted high strength supplements can help and the general rule for these supplements is to start as early as possible to help prevent problems rather than have to treat later, especially if you recognise the risk factors
My two supplements of choice are Metabolic Gold to reduce the build-up of bad fats in the body and improve the metabolism. Research is now showing that the four specific polyphenols in high strength organic bergamot fruit extract provide effective support for managing weight and cholesterol, by binding to bad fats in the gut.
Jeff Schmidt is the Author/illustrator of the bestselling book:
HEART ATTACK- Finding hope, joy and inspiration through adversity.
How to avoid the two main deficiencies in a vegan diet?
The number of vegans has been growing rapidly over recent years and the concept of vegetarianism is not new dating back as early as 500 BC, first mentioned by Pythagoras.
In Great Britain, the number of vegans is estimated to have quadrupled between 2014 and 2019.
Famous vegans
Novak Djokovic, Venus and Serena Williams, Lewis Hamilton, Mike Tyson, Martina Navratilova, David Haye are great examples that veganism offers one the potential to not only be healthy, but also for elite athletes to thrive.
Some key nutrients vegans should be aware of
Although there are health benefits to a vegan lifestyle, it is also important to recognise that, as with any diet, if not appropriately planned then it is easy to become nutritionally deficient as there are certain nutrients that are not available from plants.
Below are some of the 2 key nutrients that vegans need to be aware of to avoid deficiencies or imbalances.
Vitamin B12
Vitamin B12 is an essential nutrient, which does not originate in plants, but from bacteria.
In fact, B12 supplements are (for the most part) also given to farm animals, meaning even those on non-vegan diets are supplementing, but indirectly.
Symptoms of B12 deficiency may include:
- A pale yellow tinge to your skin
- A sore and red tongue (glossitis)
- Mouth ulcers
- Pins and needles (paraesthesia)
- Disturbed vision
- Irritability
- Unexplained sadness
- A decline in your mental abilities, such as memory, understanding and judgement
Due to B12 not being readily present in a vegan diet it’s recommended to supplement this, especially for strict vegans.
Two tablets daily of our Saffrosun Calm offers 100% of the Nutritional Reference Value (NRV).
Vitamin D
Vitamin D is the “sunshine vitamin”, and although it is possible to obtain this through certain plant foods such as mushrooms, in general it is not broadly consumed on a vegan diet.
In fact, the NHS advises that "everyone (including pregnant and breastfeeding women) should consider taking a daily supplement containing 10 micrograms of vitamin D during the autumn and winter” [Source [9]].
Symptoms of Vitamin D deficiency may include:
- Fatigue
- Not sleeping well
- Bone pain or achiness
- Feelings of sadness
- Hair loss
- Muscle weakness
- Loss of appetite
- Getting sick more easily
Again, it is good practice to use a supplement to ensure you are getting the recommend intake of Vitamin D, particularly in colder seasons with having less sun exposure. One capsule of our Vitamin D3 contains 100% NRV.
Probiotics
Probiotics promote a healthy balance of gut bacteria, and studies suggest that taking probiotics are linked to a range of health benefits. These include benefits for gut function, immune function, respiratory tract infections, and duration of illness.
Although vegans generally consume a diet rich in fibre, which is a key gut nutrient and it is possible to acquire probiotics from plant-based sources such as fermented foods (e.g. sourdough bread and tempeh), vegans don’t consume the most common probiotic rich foods such as yogurt and kefir.
Our Gut Love supplement contains 21 probiotics and prebiotics, and 19 billion good bacteria to support overall gut health including one probiotic which originates from soil.
The Naked Pharmacy Supplements
All of The Naked Pharmacy’s own brand of supplements are entirely vegan and contain natural ingredients, meaning higher absorption and bioavailability than synthetic supplements.