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12 Tips to Manage Christmas with Children with ADHD
Make Your ADHD Christmas Fizz Not Fizzle
We all want to avoid decking the halls with boughs of folly, let’s shine a special spotlight on the hidden struggles ADHD kids and their parents face during what can be the most frenzied time of year.
Is an ADHD Grinch-free Christmas possible?
ADHD in children means that anxiety and exhaustion can wrestle against enjoyment. While low dopamine might make the hunt for stimulation high, pushing that ‘annual magic’ too hard can mean it all unravels like a badly knitted Christmas stocking.
Alongside beautiful characteristics such as intelligence, imagination and empathy come other ADHD traits the NHS list as social anxiety, sight and noise sensitivities, emotional dysregulation and overwhelm that can really take the crackle out of Christmas.
Our ADHD-friendly 12-days of Christmas
While we can't promise your Yuletide will run without a hiccup, a few tweaks could make your ADHD Christmas much more of a cracker than a crash.
- Dreaming of a bite-sized Christmas
Protect their social battery – ADHD kids expend a lot of energy. They can also quickly become overwhelmed.
Consider trimming the festivities: stick to immediate family on the big day and spread out the extended crew on different days, giving kids a chance to recharge in between. Who said Christmas can't be done in bite-sizes?
- Good King Senses
ADHD in kids often means being up against sensory nightmares – think loud TVs, clinking glasses, gaudy Christmas lights, paper hats that feel like a crown of thorns, being hugged when you hate touch. These can all be major ADHD sensory triggers.
It’s a good idea to establish a code beforehand to use for a quick escape, set up a quiet space with soft lighting, and bring an iPad and noise-cancelling headphones with you. Sometimes, a strategic retreat is the best gift.
- Managing expectations
Before the festive break, ask your kids what they really want – even if it’s as outrageous as a wishing well (trust me, I’ve been there) or a sleep fairy (actually, I asked for this). If their dreams are bigger than Santa can handle, be upfront about it. No child wants to discover the mega-Lego set they’ve set their heart on is off the table on Christmas morning, especially when emotional dysregulation is such a significant part of ADHD.
Spare them the stress of unwrapping gifts in front of family. Here's what Lillia, 15, says: “You’re expected to have a positive reaction and that can be stressful especially as you’re already the centre of attention – that’s already socially draining. You must then react a certain way, regardless of how you feel, and force yourself to look happy even if you’re not. That’s a lot of pressure.”
- Ditch Christmas shopping
Being trapped inside busy, stuffy, noisy, crowded stores with long queues can be the seventh circle of hell for any child. Ramp that up ten-fold for an ADHD child.
Here’s some advice from Lillia: “If your child doesn’t show an interest in going shopping with you, don’t force them. Leave them with a relative, friend or parent as they’re likely to find it stressful.”
“If you can’t do this – or they want to go –take a friend with you. That way, if they find it too overstimulating, the friend can step out with them. If they’re old enough to be independent, they can go to a nearby café and wait there.”
The key thing is “to give them some options”.
- Don’t force the fun
Asking an ADHD child to ‘join in’ when they’re already struggling to keep it together is likely to provoke a frosty withdrawal or a meltdown. Whether it’s time at pantos or fun with relatives, consider breaking visits into manageable chunks.
Lillia advises, “Don’t get mad at a child for wanting to sit out. Don’t nag them to return if you think they need more social interaction. If they’re not up for it, don’t force them.” She reminds us that socialising “shouldn’t feel like a chore”.
- Do plan the fun
It’s worth looking out for any Christmas-themed activities happening near you, like ice skating or Christmas markets. You can even make a den at home and watch Christmas films inside. Having something for your ADHD child to look forward to every day keeps their dopamine boosted the right way. If possible, get outside. ADHD and exercise have been shown to help with a reduction in their ADHD symptoms.
- Better fuel this Yule
With chocolate everywhere, our ADHDer’s dopamine-seeking brains will be partying without thinking of the crash.
We know impulse control makes it hard for them to stop, so instead let them have a nibble and keep the rest somewhere safe especially for them.
Turkey, on the other hand, is loaded with tryptophan which boosts serotonin for better moods and less anxiety. For a science-backed mood enhancer, try saffron – nature’s way to feel better and tackle ADHD symptoms.
8. No scary mystery dishes
If they’re already on a knife edge, a Christmas feast with too much food could be overwhelming. It’s a good idea to always have one comforting go-to dish for your ADHD child.
It’s worth knowing that 90% of serotonin is created in the gut. A lot of ADHD children have stomach issues, from cramps to constipation. If this is your child, it might be worth looking at Gut Love.
- Keep a routine
Although that dopamine kick wants novelty, it doesn’t mean routine should be chucked out of the window.
Discuss plans and try not to spring surprises on them. That certainly doesn’t mean Christmas has to be dull. It just needs a bit of planning. ADHD loves stimulation, but also thanks you for putting some reassuring scaffolding in place.
- Emotional regulation check-in
Emotional dysregulation is a hallmark of ADHD, where kids experience emotions more intensely, longer and deeper than their neurotypical peers. It’s often the most hidden part of ADHD too.
Dr Caroline Buzanko points out that when a child’s emotional brain is on overdrive, logic takes a back seat while the ‘emotional brain will overpower the cognitive brain every time’.
Instead of using reason which taps into their already depleted executive function skills, Dr. Buzanko suggests harnessing emotional energy. “Emotions are stronger motivators than reason.” Use gratitude, pride, and compassion – and we’ll all see fewer meltdowns.
Stimulating the vagus nerve is also said to help: You can even do this by singing cheesy Christmas hits.
And let’s not forget Saffron. This is Mother Nature’s gift for managing moods, ADHD, hormones, sleep and more.
- Sleep fairy
With brains buzzing like pinball machines, ADHD kids struggle to fall asleep or get enough of it.
ADHD-related sleep problems come from issues with the regulation of brain activity that can mean anything from a delayed circadian rhythm and later melatonin production, to insomnia.
The usual sleep hygiene rules apply, including getting outside in the earlier part of the day to try and set sleep cycles, as well as keeping to the same wake-up time each morning can help.
Another natural great way to help your ADHD child unwind is magnesium. It regulates neurotransmitters related to mental tension – learn more about it here.
And of course, Saffron is great for mood balance as it helps banish stress. Saffrosun Calm and Saffrosun for Children can help sooth away anxiety and make for a more restful night.
- Nature and Nutrition for ADHD
Thankfully Mother Nature has some pretty special gifts which can help with many of the challenging symptoms of ADHD. Look out for:
Saffrosun Calm (and for Children)
Which helps alleviate nervousness, improves sleep and restores emotional balance. It also enhances dopamine, serotonin, and noradrenaline—ideal for ADHD.
Supports nerve and muscle function, improves sleep and reduces stress and helps to decreases brain fog.
Immune Hero for Children
Contains Zinc to regulate dopamine and aids iron absorption, that’s essential for brain development and cognitive function
Gut Love (+14)
Enhances digestive health and alleviates gut issues in ADHD kids by improving the absorption of nutrients.
Foods that can help ADHD symptoms
The nutrients in certain foods travel to the brain and contribute to dopamine production, for example lots of fruits and vegetables.
Protein, including lean meats like turkey is great, as are foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids like salmon. Research has shown that consuming the amino acid tyrosine found in milk and bananas and more can also increase dopamine availability.
Try to avoid sugar and artificial colourings.
If you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact our pharmacists on pharmacist@thenakedpharmacy.com or call us 01483 678 438.
Reduce stress with Saffrosun and Marine Magnesium
Feeling Stressed?
Fight or Flight Response
This 'fight or flight' response is our body's survival mechanism when faced with harm. It is a series of hormonal and physiological responses to help you fight the 'threat' or flee to safety.
However, our bodies can often overreact to stressors that are not life-threatening, and long-term stress can have detrimental effects on our physical and mental health.
Stress Busters!
Saffrosun CalmWhen we are stressed our body releases a hormone called cortisol. If your cortisol levels remain high for prolonged periods, it can cause weight gain, high blood pressure, and even diabetes.
Saffrosun helps lower cortisol levels and regulate our 'happy hormone', serotonin. Made from clinically proven saffron, Saffrosun Calm creates a sense of calm, reduces anxiety, lifts the mood, and improves sleep quality.
Magnesium is an essential mineral which plays a key role in mood regulation, sleep quality and has been shown to reduce symptoms of anxiety.
A 2017 study involving 126 adults found that supplementing with magnesium improved symptoms of anxiety and depression.
Our Marine Magnesium is made from purified seawater and 2 capsules contain 100% of the daily recommended intake for adults.
How to enjoy great sleep, naturally
I only appreciated the full value of sleep after my son was born and we experienced regular interrupted nights. After a few weeks my mind started playing tricks and my wife would often find items in our food cupboards which were obviously not supposed to be there!
It took us several months to resolve my son’s regular wake up calls - we mixed bananas with his formula which sustained nutrition beyond 2 hours. By that time, I felt I was functioning at 30% of my usual capacity. However, I then found it difficult to restore my sleep pattern back to the pre-parenthood 7-8 hours. My body and its sleep hormones had adapted to the new regime.
Sleep research demonstrates how long term sleep problems impact health. The health impact data for sleep problems is a wake up call in itself! Long term effects include a decline in cognitive function, increase in mental health problems, chronic fatigue, and lack of concentration / irritability.
Every person is unique. However, the National Sleep Foundation guidelines advise that healthy adults should sleep, on average, between seven and nine hours a night.
How to reset the sleep pattern with natural solutions.
Sleep disturbances can be caused mainly by lifestyle, environmental and health factors.
Understanding and treating the primary cause, should usually resolve the issue and improve the quality of sleep.
Diet
I concluded from this experience, that I should never underestimate the power of food or drink to affect my health including sleep. To reset my system, I cut out all products containing caffeine and sugar for 2 weeks and then reintroduced them carefully avoiding caffeine in the afternoon or evenings. I love a glass of red wine in the evenings but I noticed even one glass affected the quality of my sleep making me wake up during the night so I reduced my week day alcohol intake too.
Smoking
I’m not a smoker but the data shows that nicotine is a brain stimulant so, while it is advisable to quit smoking altogether, it is important to avoid smoking just before bedtime.
Lifestyle
Daily exercise is fundamental for physical and psychological health; however, exercising just before bedtime will increase the body’s adrenaline production and raise body temperature, making it more difficult to switch off. So, exercise earlier in the day and try to avoid more intense exercise 2 hours before bedtime if possible.
The influence of daylight on the body’s sleep hormone melatonin is well documented. Exercising in daylight helps to restore melatonin levels in the evening. However, a glance at a mobile phone or laptop screen at night will quickly reduce the levels of this sleep hormone. Even opening a fridge door at night can have a negative effect.
Physical Health
Problems such as headaches, migraines or chronic pain will stop you from getting a good night sleep. Speak to your GP or Pharmacist about the appropriate medication or natural remedy to treat the relevant symptoms in order to resolve the issue.
Stress and mental health problems like anxiety and depression contribute to a high percentage of sleep difficulties. In this case, a combined approach of psychological support, lifestyle changes and use of medication/natural remedies, tailored to the severity of symptoms, is often very helpful and can restore emotional balance and promote restful sleep. Also, relaxation techniques such as meditation, yoga, mindfulness can help you to relax and unwind.
Furthermore, sleep difficulties can be related to hormone imbalances; fluctuations in the levels of testosterone, thyroxin, cortisol, progesterone and melatonin (sleep hormone) can all disturb your sleep pattern.
The production of melatonin naturally increases especially with evening darkness and it is a central part of the body’s sleep-wake cycle. The levels of melatonin are very important to induce and maintain sleep. Synthetic melatonin can be taken for the relief from short term sleep disturbances and can help adjust the body's internal clock. Consult your GP before starting melatonin therapy which is available on NHS prescription.
Environment
The bedroom should be somewhere that we associate with sleep. It is better to remove distractions from your bedroom and watch TV, play computer games and eat in another room. This will allow you to relax and unwind.
Also the ‘blue light’ generated by computers, phones and tablets displays suppresses the production of melatonin, hence causing sleep disruption. It is recommended not using these devices at least two hours before you go to sleep in order to reduce the impact on the quality of your night rest.
Other common factors that can affect sleep are light, temperature and noise. You should be able to control the intensity of light and noise in the room by using blackout curtains/ eye mask and ear plugs respectively. The temperature of the room is also very important; feeling too cold or hot can disrupt your sleep so always make sure you work out the best sleep environment for you. Keeping a sleep diary can be useful to record the conditions that helped you get a good night sleep.
How can Nature help?
At the Naked Pharmacy we believe in a holistic approach to health.
While addressing the root cause of sleep difficulties should be the first point of action, the use of natural remedies can support the process leading to a better quality and quantity of sleep.
How will Saffrosun help me?
At The Naked Pharmacy, we ensure that all of our supplements are made with effective strength bioactives and are scientifically supported by clinical trials. You can read more about our research here.
Marine Magnesium
Pure Marine Magnesium is a natural remedy which helps to support optimum nerve and muscle function, while promoting relaxation. It is sourced from sea algae and is one of the seven essential minerals we need for our bodies to function healthily. Magnesium helps relax muscles and induce sleep.
You can read more about clinical trials on the effect of magnesium supplementation on primary insomnia here.
It is recommended to consult your Pharmacist or GP before taking any new supplement to make sure it is suitable for you, do call us on 01483 685 630.
Final thoughts
After the birth of my son I realised why sleep is a vital component of overall health and well-being to help my body repair and re-set, ready for a new day. Taking a step by step approach to treat my sleep disturbance eventually resolved the issue. Eventually, I realised that my pre-bed routines and environment had a significant influence on the quality of my sleep. Small, incremental changes made a big difference.
Natural remedies proved effective for me and still form part of my approach, whenever I am troubled with poor sleep. At The Naked Pharmacy, we are always very happy when we help solve customer sleep problems because we know how much this will improve overall health and happiness.
Upgrade your muscle recovery with Natruflex Turmeric
Whether you are a novice or competitive athlete, when you undertake any exercise, you want to take preventative measures to reduce muscle damage.
During exercise the two leading causes of muscle damage are inflammation and oxidative stress.
The natural bioactive polyphenols of the spice turmeric called curcuminoids have been shown to counteract both inflammation and oxidative stress caused by exercise.
Exercise-induced muscle damage (EIMD) leads to the onset of an inflammatory response that is associated with a decrease in the ability to generate muscle strength, decreased range of motion, localised swelling, delayed onset muscle soreness and increased muscle proteins in the blood (such as creatine kinase, lactate dehydrogenase and myoglobin).
Inflammatory responses are always linked to oxidative stress and both are directly involved in EIMD.
The Science Bit
A 2020 review showed that supplementing with turmeric extract at a dose between 150mg – 1500mg per day before and during exercise and up to 72 hrs post exercise improved performance by reducing exercise-induced muscle damage and reducing inflammation caused by physical activity. Read PubMed Article
Another review showed that participants who supplemented with a turmeric extract demonstrated reduced inflammation and oxidative stress, decreased pain and muscle damage, superior recovery and muscle performance and improved gastrointestinal function. The review concluded that curcumin supplementation appears to be safe and beneficial for sport and exercise in humans. Read Review
Natruflex Turmeric
Our supplement Natruflex Turmeric contains 800mg turmeric extract (curcuminoids) per 2 capsules.
It is combined with black pepper for better absorption and naturally sourced marine magnesium, which further supports nerve function.
Taking curcumin is much gentler on the body than taking non steroidal anti-inflammatory medication, which can cause adverse effects such as heartburn and stomach ulcers.
If you’re looking to further enhance your stamina and exercise performance:
- Try adding 1-2 tablespoons of chia seeds to your daily diet. These tiny seeds are super packed with protein, omega 3 and omega 6 oils, calcium, iron, zinc and rich in antioxidants. When mixed with water and allowed to soak, these seeds release a form of gelled water that hydrates more slowly and effectively than just drinking liquid alone.
The Aztecs so treasured chia that they used to gift it to their king in homage and Aztec runners used to chew on the seeds as they went into battle.
Chris McDougall’s book “Born to Run” describes how the Tarahumara Indians of Mexico’s Copper Canyons – known to be ultra-runners, running hundreds of miles without rest and enjoying every mile of it, fuelled themselves with a beverage containing chia seeds called ‘Iskiate’ and you can add a Natruflex Turmeric opened capsule an you have the perfect natural drink for recovery and fuel.
Forest bathing
Intuitively, we understand that we feel better in nature.
Research has shown that a specific way of spending time in nature, called forest bathing, has immense benefits to our physical and mental wellbeing.
What is forest bathing?
It is a slow walk in the forest or woodland, using nature mindfully, to engage our senses.
Nature provides many opportunities to help us be mindful and present.
What can we see? Notice the many shades of green and fractal patterns of leaves and branches.
What do we hear? Notice the orchestra created by the wind and leaves, the songs of birds or the crunching of frost beneath our feet.
What do we smell? Notice the various scents of pine, the earthiness of fungi or the memory-evoking smell of soil.
What do we feel? Notice the softness of moss with our hands, the tickling of the pine on our cheeks or the coolness of the wind on our skin.
And finally, what do we taste? We can sometimes taste the air or finish a forest bathing session with a taste of the woodland, such as with pine needle tea.
What are the origins of forest bathing?
Forest Bathing is known in Japan as shinrin yoku and was started in the 1980s when many Japanese people showed signs of being stressed and overworked due to what was called “technostress”.
As Japanese society became more reliant on technology, people were further removed from nature. Something needed to be done. With tree coverage of 67% and a culture that pays reverence to nature, Japan naturally looked to the forests. Forest bathing was born.
Research
In 2004, Japanese government-funded research began to look into forest bathing and the results were impressive.
Research has continued and these studies showed that forest bathing has the potential to:
- Improve weakened immunity, with an increase in natural killer (NK) cells, white blood cells that attack tumours and infection
- Significantly decreased levels of stress hormones, cortisol and adrenaline
- Reduce blood pressure
- Increase heart rate variability (HRV – an indicator of being in your parasympathetic nervous system state)
- Decrease blood sugar levels
- Increase anti-cancer proteins perforin, granzyme A and granulysin
- Increase hours of sleep
- Improve concentration and memory
- Improve levels of feeling of wellbeing
Benefits arise from two factors.
The first source of the benefits of forest bathing are phytoncides.
Walking in the forest exposes us to the forest’s natural aromatherapy. Phytoncides are the natural oils within plants and are part of a tree’s defence system, protecting it from pests and diseases. These same phytoncides are partly responsible for the benefits. The main components of phytoncides are terpenes, which include D-limonene (smells lemony), Alpha-pinene (has a fresh, piney scent), Beta-pinene (smells herby, like basil or dill) and Camphene (smells of turpentine, a resinous smell)
The second source of the benefits of forest bathing are mindfulness and meditation.
Mindfulness and meditation helps us switch from our sympathetic nervous system, or ‘fight and flight’, to our parasympathetic nervous system, or ‘rest and digest’. If you already practice mindfulness and meditation, you will know that the key to calming the mind down is to focus on your breath. However, it can sometimes be difficult just to focus on the breath. Nature provides many subjects for us comfortably and happily to focus on and helps us “be in the present”. Remember the sight, sound, smell, feel and taste sensory exercises I introduced earlier? They help us re-connect with nature. After all, humans have spent 99.9% of time in history in a natural (rather than urban) environment making nature a place where humans instinctively feel relaxed and comfortable.
So next time you are in the forest or woodland, see if you can slow down your walking pace and take time to notice what is around you.
Or to slow down fully, let a forest bathing guide help you do the thinking. Two to three hours of forest bathing every four weeks replenishes the benefits of forest bathing.
There are many places you can practice forest bathing.
Forestry England is one source that shares locations of woodlands near you. The National Trust has a wealth of locations to forest bathe. If you are near the Surrey Hills, Hinoki Forest Bathing provides guided forest bathing sessions, including sunrise and sunset sessions, that finish with a Japanese influenced woodland tea ceremony.
Let nature replenish and care for you and in turn be inspired to care for nature.
By Lisa Duncan, HINOKI Forest Bathing in the Surrey Hills